Every minute of every day brings new opportunities to learn something we’ve never know before. — Unknown
And this time I will share 16 of my many learnings this year. So keep reading and enjoy. 😉
16. BE INDEPENDENT
Be independent and learn how to be alone because not everyone will stay and thats a hard reality that we have to accept.
15. DON’T RUSH
Take your time and do not rush things because if you’re rushing things the outcome is usually not what we expect and its okay to procastinate and be a sloth all you want but always make sure you have time for what you are really supposed to be doing.
They are our safe haven, our comfort zone and our place of abode in times of inderence and criticism from the harsh reality of our naked world so spend more quality time with these people because they are the ones who will never ever leave you and will accept you no matter who you are.
Life is about taking risks they say and yes it is. Take risk if you want it go for it you never know how perfect something might turn out. Love what you do and everything will follow.
12. LET GO
Never beg anyone to stay, because if they value you they will never think of leaving you. Let them go.
Certain things will never go back to how it used to be, and thats okay and you just have to accpet that nothing is permanent its either they will last long or last short.
Love them. When they are down be there with them. When they feel like they are alone you just have to tell them that you are going to be with them even tho you dont know the answers for their problems just you being there means a lot because to be there is to be with.
Give time for everything that is hurting you, because bad times don’t last forever and time has its own way of showing us what really matters. Give it a time and the next thing you know you’re okay already.
9. LOSING IS BETTER THAN WINNING
That losing or failing is sometimes better than winning because after all its all about the lessons you learned. Sometimes we learn more from losing than winning. And it forces us to re-examine.
8. GRADES IS NOT EVERYTHING
Grades dont define who you are. I know that line is too clichè but yeah as what Janina Vela said Grades are a bit thing but its not everything.
7. BE YOURSELF
You dont need to do those things because everyone is doing it. Don’t ever be afraid to show who you really are, because as long as you are happy with yourself, no one else’s opinion matters. Be different, break the norm and let your true you shine.
Beauty is not important. What important is you being nice and treating other people right and with respect. And one day beauty will fade away because thats how it is and why work for something that will fade away if you can work for something that will never last and that is being nice.
5. BE POSITIVE
Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass it’s learning how to dance in the rain. Be positive, always. Because life isn’t all about happy and rainbows there will always be a lot of struggles to face along the way and it depends to you if you will dance and enjoy or just stand there and wait.
Always always always appreciate everything life offers. And appreciate anyone’s effort for you becuase you may never know how much efforts they add up for you to be happy
3.YOU ARE NOT ALONE
If you feel alone, in doubt and feel like everything is not going to be okay always remember that there is someone up there who will always help you, you just have to trust Him.
2. BE AN INSPIRATION
Be an inspiration in what you do, and say. It may be a little thing but being thank because you inspire them is something really worthy to keep in your memory box.
1. STOP STEREOTYPING
I have to admit that sometimes i steroetype and judge others. Sometimes i fail to see others perspective in life I always stand up to my values and judge others because they dont equate my values and what I believe in when actually that should not be the case we have to start looking outside the box and try to consider other’s outlook in life and appreciate how simple life is for them.
Those are the main things I learned this year, I hope you enjoyed and learned something from me too.
Our identity unfolds more everyday as our experiences grow, life has a lot of unfolding to do and may you always be ready to embrace it. KEEP SLAYING! 💖;)